The legal profession is inherently demanding, requiring constant analysis, decision-making, and a high level of intellectual rigor. At times you may find yourself consumed by past cases, difficult decisions, or the potential repercussions of your actions, but dwelling on the past or fearing its recurrence can lead to stress, anxiety and burnout. Cultivating a mindset rooted in the present, acknowledging thoughts without being controlled by them, and fostering gratitude can significantly enhance your mental well-being and professional effectiveness.

You might sometimes revisit past events—whether it’s a trial that didn’t go as planned, an ethical dilemma, or a moment of self-doubt. While reflection is essential for growth, excessive rumination can lead to anxiety and stress. The gravity of the rulings you make and their impact on lives can create lingering doubts. While the past can offer lessons, it should not dictate present emotions or impair professional judgment.
Practice mindfulness
One of the most critical aspects of mental resilience is recognizing that while you cannot control the thoughts that enter your mind, you do have control over how you process them. Instead of suppressing intrusive thoughts, acknowledge them and redirect focus to the present moment. For example, a thought such as “I ruined that person’s life,” might enter your mind. You do not have control over that thought, but you do have the power to challenge that thought. A practical way to achieve this is through mindfulness techniques—consciously returning attention to the here and now rather than getting lost in the “what-ifs” of past cases or decisions. Simple practices like taking a few deep breaths before entering the courtroom, or engaging in deliberate, undistracted reading of case files can anchor the mind in the present.
If you find yourself in a situation where you cannot get in the present, try the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method, where you identify five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, one thing you can taste. By engaging your senses, this technique helps shift focus from ruminative thoughts to the current moment.
Manage anxiety and stress
Stress is an inevitable part of your job, but learning to manage it effectively is crucial. When facing an overwhelming situation—whether it’s a difficult ruling, a contentious trial, or a heavy caseload—engaging in mindful breathing can help. Try a simple box breathing exercise, where you inhale for four seconds, hold it for four, exhale for four, and hold for four. This can provide immediate relief from stress and refocus your mind.
Additionally, adopting a structured routine that includes exercise, sufficient sleep, and healthy nutrition can enhance resilience. Prioritizing self-care leads to better long-term performance and decision-making.
Let go of the past
It is not unusual for judges to hold on to the burden of past actions, fearing that mistakes may define your reputation or career. However, growth comes from experience, including errors. Instead of fearing the past, reframe mistakes as stepping stones to wisdom. A helpful perspective is to ask: “What did this experience teach me, and how can I apply that lesson moving forward?”
For instance, you might dwell on a negative news article that was written about you. Instead of focusing on the perceived wrong-doing, shift your focus to the skills you can gain from this experience, such as embracing constructive criticism, enhancing communication skills, and building resilience and emotional intelligence.
Practice gratitude
Gratitude has profound psychological benefits. Research shows that practicing gratitude reduces stress, increases resilience, and improves overall well-being.
You can incorporate gratitude into your daily routine through simple practices:
Reflect daily: At the end of the day, take a few minutes to list three things that went well, no matter how small.
Show gratitude at the courthouse: Express appreciation to colleagues, clerks, or staff members for their contributions. Acknowledging the hard work of others fosters a more supportive and positive work environment.
Shift your perspective: When facing a difficult case, remind yourself of the privilege of advocating for justice and making an impact.
The power of the present
You operate in a profession that demands constant intellectual engagement and decision-making. However, the mental burden of past cases, perceived failures, and fear of future outcomes can create significant stress and anxiety. By learning to stay present, acknowledging thoughts without being controlled by them, and practicing gratitude, you can cultivate resilience and maintain your well-being.
The law is built on precedent, but personal growth and mental health require a focus on the here and now. Embracing mindfulness, reframing past experiences as learning opportunities, and integrating gratitude into daily practice can help you not only excel in your career, but also lead to a healthier, more fulfilling life.
It's important to acknowledge that the pressures of your role as a judge may lead you to seek solace in alcohol or other substances to manage overwhelming thoughts and emotions. If you find yourself confronting such challenges, consider reaching out to the Judicial Advisory Group (JAG), a peer-based, confidential assistance program dedicated to supporting judges and magistrates with both personal and professional issues.